I know that words can be hurtful. I really believe it has more to do with the delivery of the words than the actual word itself. I am writing this because I want to explain why I decided to call this blog “ooops I said vagina.” I say that word sometimes. I don’t know why…I just do. You can really use that word in so many ways. I might even say it has become one of my most favorite words. Of course after the good ol F bomb!! Who doesn’t love that word. Seriously, if you have never just stood somewhere out in nature and yelled FUCK at the top of your lungs, than you haven’t lived. There is just something about saying it that releases stuff that’s all bottled up inside. Actually even if you decide to change it up with like ” frick”..or “friggin”, it seems to work pretty good. It just has to start with an F. If you take the F out, it just doesn’t have the same effect. I can not figure out why so many people get so up in arms over words.
TRUE STORY : I had this “friend” on Facebook that decided to not only delete me, but block me because I wrote the word vagina in one of my status posts. Okay, first of all, this “friend” has a vagina so I don’t understand why she is so offended by the word, and secondly I know damn well she uses hers because she has 4 kids…maybe 5 by now. I wouldn’t know due to the fact that I no longer exist in her world. She doesn’t have to worry anymore about her sensitive eye holes having to see some awful, horrible word that I wrote. The thing I don’t get is she felt like it was so bad she couldn’t just delete me, but had to literally ERASE me from her existence. That is really what it means….when you get blocked on Facebook…you have officially been ERASED!! All because of the word vagina. Now listen, I am not promoting cussing all over the place. I realize there is a time and place. But I strongly recommend every once in a while just letting loose. It can be very freeing. Plus…they are just words. It’s really that simple. It is about how you speak to others that matters more. If you say to someone..” your fucking stupid”….or ” I fucking love you”…it’s not the F word that is the problem here is it?!